Okay, I admit it. Sometimes, I wish I had a daughter. Yesterday I watched as my neighbor helped her daughter sew her first skirt. It was delightful.
Sometimes, I wish that was in my future.
It's not in my future. I have two boys. And a husband who, well, would be against his boys wearing skirts. Sewing them, maybe. But wearing them? Unlikely. And there's certainly no fun in making and not wearing.
I'm not giving up, of course–there's lots we can sew, and have sewn, and plan to sew, me and the boys. And with a mama like me (stay-at-home feminist/Women's Studies graduate/quilt lover-maker-designer/make-something-out-of-nothing soul) you can bet my boys will be in touch with their feminine side. (Meaning their sewing side.)
So I'll continue to encourage an interest in sewing, yes. That's where I can be creative, imaginative, and inspired; maybe my boys can reach that through sewing one day, too. But I'm assured that you don't need a needle and thread–and you certainly don't have to be a girl–to create, imagine, and inspire. My biggest little one did just that this morning.
Need bricks and mortar to build a fort? Malarkey. All you need is a nursing pillow, some painted, half-painted, and unpainted blocks, and selected items from your treasure bowl (on the left).
The fort's fleet.
Even the ghastliest winged bat-thingy monster enjoys a little color–preferably in the form of batik scraps left over from a Craftfail-style sewing project.
Hands eagerly pile on a flurry of treasure-bowl contents (including leaves from a front-yard bush).
Creativity, imagination, inspiration. It's all here. No sewing required.